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Jemima Mepham Relf [Harmer], daughter of Michael Harmer [Mepham], bricklayer farmer and Sarah Harmer [Parsons]
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Date
Type
Information
Source
 
1822
Born
In the Parish of Heathfield, Sussex
1851 Census
Heathfield, Sussex
 
24th October 1842
Married
David Relf, wheelwright at All Saints Church in the Parish of Heathfield, Sussex; witnesses Horace Haffenden & Susan Relfe
Heathfield Marriage Registers
 
1845
Birth of a daughter
Ellen in the Parish of Heathfield, Sussex
Heathfield Parish Registers
 
1846
Birth of a son
Thomas in the Parish of Heathfield, Sussex
Heathfield Parish Registers
 
1850
Birth of a son
David in the Parish of Heathfield, Sussex
1851 Census
Heathfield, Sussex
 
30th March 1851
Census
At Mugreed in the Parish of Heathfield, Sussex; Jemima Relf, F, Wife, married, age 29, born Heathfield, Sussex
1851 Census
Heathfield, Sussex
 
Jul to Sep 1852
Birth of a daughter
Ruth in the Parish of Heathfield, Sussex; registered at Hailsham District, Sussex; ref: 1852 Q3 Vol 2B Page 67
Hethfield 1861 Census
 
Oct to Dec 1856
Birth of a son
James Michael in the Parish of Heathfield, Sussex; registered at Hailsham District, Sussex; ref: 1856 Q4 Vol 2B Page 63
1881 Census
Heathfield, Sussex
 
Oct to Dec 1859
Birth of a son
Richard Asher in the Parish of Heathfield, Sussex; registered at Hailsham District, Sussex; ref: 1859 Q4 Vol 2B Page 67
1881 Census
Heathfield, Sussex
 
3rd April 1881
Census
At Spring Cottage in the Parish of Heathfield, Sussex; Jemima Relf, F, Wife, married, age 59, born Heathfield, Sussex
1881 Census
Heathfield, Sussex
 
4th November 1886
Died
In the Parish of Heathfield, Sussex
ANcestry

Ancestor's report
Descendent's report
Harmer, Harmar, Harmir, Harmor, Harner, Hermer family records
Ralf, Ralff, Ralph, Ralphe, Ralfs, Realf, Realfe, Relf, Relfe, Rellf, Relff, Relfs, Relph, Relphe, Rolf, Rolfe, Rolff, Rolffe, Rolph, Rolphe family records
The ancestral pedigree of Jemima Mepham Relf [Harmer]
   
 unknown father
Not marriedHannah Mepham 
   b: 1769 Heathfield, Sussex
ch: 31st Dec 1769 All Saints Church
bur: 7th Mar 1794 All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex		 
  
  
 Michael 
 b: 1788 Heathfield, Sussex
ch: 9th Nov 1788 All Saints Church
d: Jun 1854 Heathfield, Sussex
bur: 4th Jun 1854 All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex		 
   
Grandfather
record
   
   
   
 Michael Harmer [Mepham]
bricklayer farmer		m: 7th Dec 1806 All Saints Church, Heathfield, SussexSarah Parsons 
 b: 1788 Heathfield, Sussex
ch: 9th Nov 1788 All Saints Church
d: Jun 1854 Heathfield, Sussex
bur: 4th Jun 1854 All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex		  b: 1789 Heathfield, Sussex
ch: 6th Sep 1789 All Saints Church		 
  
           
Sarah  John  Frances  Phebe Jemima Mepham David Jane Jabez Mepham
b: 1808 Heathfield, Sussex
ch: 10th Jul 1808 All Saints Church		  b: 1812 Heathfield, Sussex
ch: 12th Jan 1812 All Saints Church		  b: 1816 Heathfield, Sussex
ch: 26th May 1816 All Saints Church		  b: 28th Oct 1819 Heathfield, Sussex
ch: 3rd Dec 1819 Heathfield Chapel		 b: 1822 Heathfield, Sussex
d: 4th Nov 1886 Heathfield, Sussex		 b: 1824 Heathfield, Sussex b: 1829 Heathfield, Sussex
ch: 30th Aug 1829 All Saints Church		 b: 1832 Heathfield, Sussex
ch: 24th Jun 1832 All Saints Church
 Hannah  Michael Thomas         
 b: 1810 Heathfield, Sussex
ch: 4th Mar 1810 All Saints Church		  b: 1814 Heathfield, Sussex
ch: 10th Apr 1814 All Saints Church		 b: 7th Mar 1818 Heathfield, Sussex
ch: 5th Apr 1818 Heathfield Chapel		         
                    
Parental
record
   
   
    
1st marriageDavid Relf
wheelwright		m: 24th Oct 1842 All Saints Church, Heathfield, SussexJemima Harmer 
 b: 1823 Heathfield, Sussex
ch: 7th Dec 1823 All Saints Church
d: 17th Jan 1901 Heathfield, Sussex		  b: 1822 Heathfield, Sussex
d: 4th Nov 1886 Heathfield, Sussex		 
  
      
 Ellen Thomas David Ruth James Michael Richard Asher
 b: 1845 Heathfield, Sussex
ch: 27th Feb 1845 All Saints Church		 b: 1846 Heathfield, Sussex
ch: 4th Oct 1846 All Saints Church		 b: 1850 Heathfield, Sussex b: Jul to Sep 1852 Heathfield, Sussex b: Oct to Dec 1856 Heathfield, Sussex b: Oct to Dec 1859 Heathfield, Sussex
             
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record

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